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Daddy’s Little Girls- What YOU Mean to Me

by Charlie Thibodeaux
My Sweet Girls

My Sweet Girls

If I could capture a moment in time it would be the day that I celebrate my love for my girls and the privilege that it is for me to be called Daddy by them.

Each year we load up in the car and go to our annual “Daddy Daughter Dance” hosted by Circle Christian School.

It is a special time for us to celebrate the relationship that we have and to shake it out on the dance floor. Its not about how you dance, but rather that you get to dance and celebrate each other.

For me it is a time to pause and reflect on the passed year and re-evaluate my relationship with my girls and to set new priorities. I am reminded each year how fast time is going, how little time that I have left with them, and just how much they need their Daddy.

They don’t think about my inabilities, my imperfections, or my provision    (I am so happy about that) they just want to celebrate their relationship with their Daddy.

The fact that they have a Daddy that is there for them, a Daddy who gives them security, affection, and treats them with a loving hand and kind words means the world to them. What they celebrate is that they have a Daddy who would do anything for them that will help build up a morale character development and that helps them to eventually become a Godly woman that fears the Lord.

Psalm 31:10 

Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain,

but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.

My time with them is precious. The two hour dance time that we have flies by like the years have. But there is no time to look back for there is a lot of building yet to be done.

The most important thing for me in the moment while we all melt together on the dance floor for that one last song “Butterfly Kisses”, is to always remember whose that they are, they belong to the Lord. I only have them for a short while. And as I slow dance with them in the darkness of the room, with those bittersweet tears quietly rolling down my cheek as I pray over  them, I thank God for the blessing of “Daddy’s Little Girls.”

I Love You Kaitlyn and Mandy. You mean the world to me. “Sign Sign Sign.”

"Pumpkin Noodle" Mandy

“Pumpkin Noodle” Mandy

"Sweet Princess" Kaitlyn
“Sweet Princess” Kaitlyn

 

Do These Three Things For A Positive Prayer Life

by Charlie Thibodeaux

Ephesians 6:18 “Pray in the spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints.”

 

I once realized how much my prayer life had been lacking. This realization was hard for me for what I had been missing with God.

A family that prays together, stays together..

A family that prays together, stays together.

 

Missing what “could have been” according to God’s plan is a big deal. Especially whenever it wasn’t just me, it was my whole family too.

 

Being a husband and father is a big deal and I felt that I wasn’t preparing them enough for battle.

 

I made a decision to not miss out on His plan any longer. And I decided to not let my wife and family down in hat way again. We had all been missing a much richer and more meaningful walk with God.

 

Regarding my past prayer life, most of it was prayer on the fly, which is okay too but not when you don’t have that quiet time with God that you really need when you are truly seeking him. When I watched the video below by Francis Chan, it made me think a lot about myself.

 

The truth is that most of the time as I prayed  I was merely going through the motions. It became very ritualistic. I would almost say the same things when I prayed.

 

When God’s word revealed  to me how to really pray, I then did a lot of searching and asked God about how my prayer life had been.

 

As I have taken my prayer life with Christ more seriously now and totally relinquished myself to Him, letting the spirit fill me and pour out of me, I become less and He becomes more. During this time when I pray I am literally praying with the spirit inside of me. It is an amazing feeling.

 

Improve your prayer life and improve y walk with God.

 

There are three things that have truly helped me in my prayer life and my walk with God.

 

The first thing is that I have found the way to consistently fellowship with the spirit is through daily devotion. For me to meditate on God’s word and daily ask the Holy Spirit to fill me. Let Jesus fight the battle and let Jesus have victory over the strongholds in my life. To be more intentional in everything that I do. Dig deeper into God’s word. It’s not about how much I read, it is however, about how I read. And that everything I need is in the Bible. God’s love letter is written to me and to you directly.

 

The second thing is that I have found to help develop your prayer life is to develop your own prayer journal. This is a journal that will help you to organize your personal life and also your prayer life. And as you journal, keep a separate page for what God is saying to you through reading the scriptures. And you can also keep a log of what you are saying to God in return.

 

In doing this, you can then look back over time to see how God has worked in your life. How you may have been struggling with something and how much God moved through the situation. How God provided healing, or provided for a need that you or someone else may have had.

 

The third thing is to have a prayer partner. It is a hard thing to have a prayer partner at first. But it needs to be someone you feel you know and trust. When you pray about it, God will reveal who that person is.

 

Please take a few minutes to watch this video below on the very subject of prayer. It spoke volumes to me.

 

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A Daily Set of Armor

by Charlie Thibodeaux
courtesy wikipedia

Armor of God

I have to admit that it is very hard for me not to be more of a serious person these days. Sure I certainly like to joke around a lot, ask anyone that knows me. But deep in my heart I have a passion to reach the lost. That is what I have been called to do. To allow God to use me in such a way.

But there is a problem that I have that I cannot seem to gain traction on, and maybe you can relate. It is a problem that I cannot solve. Is it just me, or is it getting harder and harder for the lost to be reached these days? Not only is it harder, it seems that on most occasions, the enemy has entrenched himself further into the spiritual battle ground. Even though Christ has already won, it is hard to stand by and watch from abroad as the enemy wins souls.

The lost see us living like hypocrites. They see us shun them, turn our noses up at them, and living contrary to the Bible, yet claiming to be a Christian. When we should be following Christ and calling people to Him, we are leading people away.

I have struggled with many things over the past. But God has recently made it very apparent that I have harbored sin in my heart. He convicted me of having the wrong attitude against those who hate Christians and everything that we stand for.

In watching so many people rising up against Christianity in recent times, sometimes I thought to myself: “yeah, right back at you buddy.”

God made it apparent recently, in a Master Life Discipleship Bible study class that when I truly follow him, I need to understand Ephesians 6:12: “For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world-rulers of this darkness, against the spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.”

Battling for souls. There is the answer.

The answer lies simply in the power of prayer and letting Jesus portray his personality in us. We need to get out-of-the-way!

When we submit ourselves daily to the Masters will, he takes full control and envelopes himself within our utmost being.

What does it take to allow Jesus to take control of our personality?

What it requires is reading the Bible. Not the “read the Bible in one year” plan.

It takes consistent and intentional scripture memorization.

It requires a good understanding of God’s amazing grace. We will never fully grasp this on this earth.

It requires daily confession of your sins. If you have accepted Jesus in your heart, every sin that you have ever had or will ever have is already forgiven.You are forgiven but because you cannot live a totally sinless life, it is good to confess on a daily basis. This allows for better fellowship with the Holy Spirit.

The Holy Spirit is what gives you the power to turn away from sin.

It requires a daily quiet time. Every morning when I get up, I get up intentionally early so I can start my day with prayer, reading and meditating on God’s word. God’s word is like food for our soul.

Look at what John 6:33-35 says about this: For the bread of God is he who comes down from heaven and gives life to the world.” They said to him, “Sir, give us this bread always.”
Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life; whoever comes to me shall not hunger, and whoever believes in me shall never thirst.”

We are called to be disciples of Christ. Not a teeter totterer.
When we put on the full armor of God we are enabled to fight the spiritual battle in the days ahead.

Ephesians 6:11-20 Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints, and also for me, that words may be given to me in opening my mouth boldly to proclaim the mystery of the gospel, for which I am an ambassador in chains, that I may declare it boldly, as I ought to speak.

When we let Jesus portray himself within us and equip ourselves with the armor of God, then we are thoroughly equipped to do every good work that we are called to do.

Armor up and watch what God can do through you.

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I’ve always had a passion to write. With so many blogs out there I might as well have one too.  It seems a little odd putting it all out there for the entire world to see. You wonder just how much to share without revealing anything too personal.

The only goal for me here is to be real and to create an atmosphere that is encouraging and to also share the things that I enjoy the most. And oh, because I enjoy health and being well, you will find a lot of tips on health and nutrition.  But I also love Jesus so you are bound to see a lot of him too..

I hope you enjoy as much as I do writing. The only thing hard about this is deciding what to write next. I appreciate any thoughts regarding the content so I will know what works for my fan club. What works and what would you like to see more of?

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